Maybe you’ve read many self-help books and blogs and watched YouTube channels to help improve the appearance and self-confidence. You might’ve worked yourself and your insecurities, but why is this so hard for you?
Well, there are some reason of why you might not be able to find a girlfriend, one might be your insecurities, but you need to be able to understand why on Earth do you want a girlfriend, is it because you feel lonely? Is it because are bored? Currently women have more opportunities and goals than before, times have changed, a study from the University of Harvard suggests that 20% of women in developed countries are not looking for a partner mostly because it interferes in their new lives, women now have money and more career options, the "perks" of having a couple are shrinking, men in the new years to come should understand that women are looking for experiences, you need to be able to offer the best experiences than others, you need to understand that women don't need a relationship anymore, women now create, you need to be mentally prepared to know to wait until you find your love one.
